When a loved one starts needing more help, the first question is often, “Do we need guardianship or conservatorship?” In Virginia, the answer depends on what kind of help is needed, not just on someone’s age, diagnosis, or the fact that family members are worried.
A guardian helps with certain personal decisions. A conservator manages financial affairs and property. Sometimes a person needs help in one area, sometimes both. And sometimes there may be a less restrictive way to provide support.
Here’s how to think through the options based on what’s happening in your family.
If the concern is personal care or health decisions
A guardian is appointed by a Virginia court to make certain decisions about an incapacitated person’s personal affairs. Depending on the court order, that may include decisions involving care, health, safety, support, or residence.
For example, imagine your father has dementia and can no longer understand the risks of living alone. He has started leaving the stove on, but he still understands his daily routines and can make many ordinary choices. The family may be concerned about decisions related to his care and safety, not necessarily about managing all his money.
That’s the kind of situation where the family may ask whether a guardianship is needed. But a diagnosis alone doesn’t automatically answer that question. The court looks at the person’s actual abilities, the decisions at issue, and whether another arrangement can address the concern.

If the concern is money, bills, or property
A conservator is appointed to manage an incapacitated person’s estate and financial affairs. The court order defines the conservator’s authority, which may include handling income, paying bills, or managing property.
Consider a different example: your mother is still making her own choices about where she lives and what care she wants, but she can no longer reliably pay bills or recognize financial scams. The family’s concern may be financial management rather than personal or medical decisions.
A conservatorship is not the same as guardianship. A conservator’s role is financial; it doesn’t automatically give that person authority over medical care or where someone lives.
If you’re looking for a conservatorship lawyer in VA, or a guardianship attorney, it helps to start by identifying the specific decisions your loved one can no longer safely make and what support is already available.
If both kinds of help may be needed
Sometimes the concerns overlap. A person may be unable to make important care decisions and unable to manage money or property. In that situation, the court may appoint both a guardian and a conservator.
Even then, the court’s orders should spell out the authority given to each person. One appointment does not automatically mean the appointee controls every part of the person’s life. The goal is to address the needs the court finds are present while preserving the person’s ability to make decisions where possible.

Virginia can limit the authority granted
Guardianship and conservatorship do not have to be all-or-nothing. Virginia law allows the court to grant limited authority and specify which decisions or financial matters the appointed person can handle.
For instance, a person might need help with certain health-care decisions but still be able to choose daily activities, communicate preferences, and manage a small personal allowance. Or someone might need help managing a particular financial matter while remaining capable of handling other parts of their finances.
A limited appointment can preserve independence by focusing on what the person actually needs help with. That’s why it’s important to describe the specific problem, not just request broad authority because the family is understandably worried.
What does the court consider before appointing someone?
A Virginia court does not appoint a guardian or conservator just because it might make life easier for relatives. The petitioner must show, by clear and convincing evidence, that the person is incapacitated and needs the requested appointment. The person whose decision-making is at issue has rights in the process, including the ability to participate and challenge the evidence.
The court also considers whether a less restrictive alternative could meet the person’s needs. That may include an advance directive, a durable power of attorney, or another form of decision-making support. The court looks at the person’s abilities and limitations, the help actually needed, the proposed fiduciary’s suitability, and how to support the person’s independence.
In practical terms, a court may ask:
- Which decisions can the person still make?
- What specific risks or unmet needs are prompting the petition?
- Could a trusted agent or another support arrangement address those needs?
- What authority is necessary, and what authority would be more than necessary?
You can read more in the Virginia Code provisions on guardianship and conservatorship hearings and on limited guardianships and conservatorships. The Virginia court system’s guardianship and conservatorship resources also explain the process.

Who can ask the court to step in?
In Virginia, any person may file a petition asking the court to appoint a guardian or conservator. A family member may be the one who raises the concern, but the petitioner must provide information about the person’s circumstances and the kind of help being requested.
Filing a petition doesn’t guarantee that the court will grant it. The court process includes review of the evidence, and the person at the center of the case has rights. Because the right approach depends on the facts and the current law, families should get advice before deciding what to request. You can review the Virginia statute on who may petition and what the petition includes.
Planning ahead may help avoid a court proceeding
The best time to plan for incapacity is usually before a crisis, while the person can understand the choices and sign legal documents. A durable power of attorney can name someone to handle financial matters. An advance medical directive can name an agent for health-care decisions and record the person’s wishes.
A revocable living trust may also help with management of assets transferred into it. Think of it as a box with no lid: you can put assets into the box, manage them while you’re able, and name a successor trustee to step in under the trust’s terms if you can’t manage those assets yourself.
We recommend pairing a revocable living trust with a pour-over will. The will can direct assets left outside the trust into it after death. Keep in mind, though, that a pour-over will doesn’t manage assets during someone’s lifetime, and assets that were never transferred into the trust may not be covered by the successor trustee’s authority. A trust also doesn’t replace health-care documents.
These tools can help make your wishes clear and give trusted people authority to act. They don’t guarantee that a court proceeding will never be needed, but thoughtful planning may reduce the chances of one, or help narrow the issues if court involvement becomes necessary. Our estate planning basics and elder law pages offer more information.
Start with the decision your family is trying to solve
If your loved one can’t manage personal or medical decisions, ask whether a guardian may be needed. If the concern is financial management, consider whether a conservator is the relevant role. If both needs are present, the court may consider both, but the authority requested should fit the circumstances.
Every family’s situation is different. If you’re unsure what kind of help may be appropriate, contact our firm. We’d be glad to talk through your situation and help you understand the options.


